What the hell does it mean to be a man? Or more precisely what is a man? EXACTLY!?!?! For most of us we are going to start the unintelligible answer with something like this, "Well it means, uh, well, you take care of business, um you are strong, you are um, I don't know you're just a man I guess."
And we settle for answers like this. We wonder what is wrong with society, we question our existence, and bitch and moan, but are unable to realize it is our lack of definition for our roles in society causing our instability. Im no chauvinist and I do not care about sexual preference, hell I don't care if a woman wants to act like a man or if a man wants to act like a woman, BUT if you classify as a man lets man up and take care of business to the best of our capabilities.
Now that we got the politically correct shit out of the way. WHAT IS A MAN? I believe there are three simple traits of a man, and these can embody a plethora of characteristics but we are going to narrow it down to A SIMPLE THREE.
1ST of all a man is going to TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS. Now, this can encompass many things, so in simplest terms, a man accepts whatever tasks he is responsible for in life. Taking care of business means a man handles the challenges of life in front of him whether foreseen or unforeseen. There is no blaming or finger-pointing excuses. A man handles business and sees everything as an opportunity to grow and improve.
2nd a man respects all people and situations because he is focused on always developing and knows without respect of the process, he himself would be lost. A man knows everyone is a work in progress and sees himself in all people and all people in himself. Therefore, a man knows in order to be respected he must respect all people. A man has no need for judgment when the TRUTH itself will get the job done. (truth always comes into existence)
3rd A man demands respect, and not in some brutal, "I'll kick your ass way." BUT a man has no time to be run over or disrespected. A man is firm and strong in who he is, his beliefs, his values and unwavering in his morals. A man knows that disrespect is the underlying evil of jealousy, envy, and all other sorts of pride. There is no room to be disrespected when you are sticking to the highest code of life. A man allows no room for any disrespect and does not entertain disrespectful guests.
THERE we go, a man takes care of business, respects all, and demands respect. In the simplest terms, these three traits embody all other traits a man might possess or need in life. Without these three characteristics, a man will find it hard to be a man in life. In a world with so much confusion, sometimes it helps if were can actually label the type of person we are striving to be. Im sure that's not politically correct but is the truth and the truth is often the hardest pill to swallow, but THE MOST NEEDED REMEDY.
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